So I still don't know what i'm doing. I know it's been awhile since i logged on here though.
I know that I'm falling away. I keep going to church, sporadically at least. And I go to FHE. Sometimes I pray, at least if it's praying even when it's only in my head.
My biggest problem is I've fallen for a guy, hard. I can't get over him. And the problem is he knows it. He says he's just playing me. Cause he could never really be with another guy. I really think he's just playing himself. Of course he's a member too, so he wants to get married and have kids. He'll be miserable and ruin some girls life. At least that's what we've talked about a little, but it's what he wants. I mean he even said that he wouldn't be able to love any girl the way that she deserves to be loved.
Why is it that the church has to be so absolute that it forces us to make decisions which would seemingly hurt others or ourselves. The worst part is while I do have a certain ammount of self interest in what he's doing I'm friends with the girl he's dating, or trying to date. She's liked him for a really long time and I can't justify him ruining her life so he can prtend to be normal. I'm probably just bitter really. But what am I supposed to do? He keeps leading me on and even though I know that that is what's going on I can't help feeling the way I do. He keeps me dangling by a thread, just waiting to see what happens. That's pretty much me right now. just waiting to see what he does.
Oh well.....
I know that I'm falling away. I keep going to church, sporadically at least. And I go to FHE. Sometimes I pray, at least if it's praying even when it's only in my head.
My biggest problem is I've fallen for a guy, hard. I can't get over him. And the problem is he knows it. He says he's just playing me. Cause he could never really be with another guy. I really think he's just playing himself. Of course he's a member too, so he wants to get married and have kids. He'll be miserable and ruin some girls life. At least that's what we've talked about a little, but it's what he wants. I mean he even said that he wouldn't be able to love any girl the way that she deserves to be loved.
Why is it that the church has to be so absolute that it forces us to make decisions which would seemingly hurt others or ourselves. The worst part is while I do have a certain ammount of self interest in what he's doing I'm friends with the girl he's dating, or trying to date. She's liked him for a really long time and I can't justify him ruining her life so he can prtend to be normal. I'm probably just bitter really. But what am I supposed to do? He keeps leading me on and even though I know that that is what's going on I can't help feeling the way I do. He keeps me dangling by a thread, just waiting to see what happens. That's pretty much me right now. just waiting to see what he does.
Oh well.....
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